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Amelia's avatar

In 1958, my husband and I arrived at the University of Alabama where he was to be a visiting artist. It was the year after George Wallace stood in the door to the University to prevent the University being desegregated and Klan members and state police surrounded the campus. We soon discovered that the town and gown relationship was rather “strained “as it was seen as a hotbed of liberalism and antithesis to the values of the community.

It was late August and unbearably hot, so we headed to Miami Beach. Both of us tan easily and by the time we returned to campus we were coffee brown. When Mel applied, he had sent them a photograph, but it was somewhat bleached in tone. The look of shock on the faces of the community was quite amusing. They kept asking “from what part of India do you come?” hoping that they hadn’t inadvertently hired a “negro”. Our skin color and Jewish- New York roots were not working in our favor.

One evening early on we decided to see a film at one of the local movie houses. We purchased our tickets and found our seats. Shortly thereafter an usher came up to us with a flashlight and said we would have to leave. We were confused and asked why. He said, “It’s the law”, whites are not allowed in colored theatres and if we were seen, there would be serious consequences. Thus, our introduction to the contradictions in the South.

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Carol D Marsh's avatar

I was raised in a lily-white American suburb. The only direct experience I had with The Law - meaning police officers - was when one came to my elementary school class to talk with us. I think it may have been a show-and-tell, some kid's Dad telling us about what it's like to be on the force. He was friendly, fun, and white. Other than that, I'd read about Mr. Friendly Policeman in children's books, and was told by adults to trust The Law - police were helpful and would take good care of us. I had no reason to question this, especially because the one time I was pulled over as a teenager (cracked brake light), the policeman was friendly, funny and white. He let me off with a warning.

In my mid-thirties, I moved to Washington, DC to work in a shelter for homeless, pregnant women. Not one of those women trusted cops. Not one had ever had a positive interaction with a cop. In stark contrast to my experiences with Officer Friendly, these women had been taught as children to mistrust and fear The Law. As adults, they had been roughly handled and lied about by The Law. I was shocked by their vehemence; they were incredulous at my trust. It was my first understanding of my privilege and how it had sheltered me.

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