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Amelia's avatar

A pint of butter pecan ice cream brought me great solace and comfort throughout my teenage years, with all the stress accompanying them,

Later, breast feeding my daughter was another of those comfort experiences which I probably prolonged as much as for myself as for her. It was the only time in a life occupied with concern for others well-being that I could disengage, find solace and comfort.

From my first visit to Europe, and subsequent visits to Italy I felt that I had finally found my home; a place where my sensibilities, and sense of self would be understood and well received. Even after the brutal experience of WWII, old world charm, civility, and courtesy flourished. The less frenzied pace and savoring of each moment convinced me I should strive to return.

Since 1998 I have lived in Andalusia, Spain nestled between the mountains of the Sierra Nevada and the Mediterranean coast. Here I do not feel “invisible” as older citizens are shown the utmost respect by every member of the community. Now I do not “escape” to a corner to experience fleeting moments of comfort, Comfort surrounds me.

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Lisa St. John's avatar

There's comfort in cool white hospital sheets that smell of something extra clean. I wish there was comfort in dreams. I try not to remember them, but they remember me. How many times do I have to visit the same labyrinthian house, looking for you? Looking for a key to a locked door. Looking for a way out. There is comfort in waking up I suppose. But then you are really gone, and I know it. There’s comfort in my morning cigarette, knowing it’s the only one of the day. Shaking off any nightmare residue, there is comfort in the routine of making coffee. Waiting for the warm cup in my hands, breathing in the smell. Coffee, though, is one of those strange things that never tastes as good as it smells.

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