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Melissa Shatto's avatar

Our accident was serious. A main road blocked for most of the day. When our compact car stopped spinning, our bodies filled what little space remained. Joshua and I were accompanying mother to her dental appointment to ease her nerves. While waiting to turn into their parking lot, a white van flew up from behind and BANG! The impact pushed us in front of an oncoming dump truck. After the slow motion revolution, everyone was silent. Motionless. Mom's eyes were open and balancing tiny cubes of automotive glass. Her seat had broken and launched her halfway out the back window. Thankfully, Joshua, who had been lying down behind her, had been rearranged, landing head first on the floor behind me, legs and body extended up the back seat. A narrow escape. As a previous instructor for the National Safety Council, I knew to talk to them calmly and check for breathing and bleeding. There is a lot to tell about that day, but for our purposes here, it's the pivotal event that forever changed my outlook on luck. The catastrophic incident left my mother with restricted breathing and severely painful nerve damage. My son has since suffered almost unsurmountable anxiety, depression, and difficulties learning (higher math) in line with brain trauma. It was all caused by a stranger's carelessness in a moment of bad luck, yet in all the many times I have told the story, I express only how fortunate we were to have survived as we did, and always consider myself incredibly lucky.

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Last year, after Keith took me out to lunch for Mother’s Day, we stopped to pick up groceries. While piling our purchases into the back of our car, we saw a female mallard with a dozen ducklings, crossing the parking lot. The mama duck seemed purposeful and distracted, her chicks wandering and scurrying after her. I prayed she was a lucky duck, as I was the evening my grade-school-age son went missing. The sun was setting when I stepped into our backyard and called into the woods behind our house, “David, time to come home.” No answer. “Da….vid!” No answer. I walked across the street and knocked on the neighbor's door. “Have you seen David?” “Last we saw he was down in the woods,” the brothers said. I ran along the edge of the woods and raced up and down our street calling, “Da…vid, Da…vid.” No answer. I grabbed the phone and called every friend of his I could imagine. No David. I paced the kitchen floor and looked out the front and back windows while praying 'beggy' prayers. "Please, God, please. I’ll do anything if you bring him home safe." Visions of headlines: "Boy Found Dead, Mother was Distracted." I was ready to call the police when I heard the door to the garage open. David strolled into the kitchen. “Hey, Mom, what’s for dinner?” “Where in the world were you? It’s been dark for over an hour.” “I was playing at Sarah’s house.” “Sarah? You never play with Sarah. I’ve been calling you. Didn’t you hear me? I almost called the police.” “Oh, Mom. There wasn’t anything to worry about. I knew where I was.” His luck looks don't kill. David turns forty this year. Yesterday, he texted me, "Happy Mother's Day." For all his wandering, I know I am a lucky duck.

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