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My maternal grandmother and grandfather were born and raised in Yorkshire, England. They immigrated to the States in their mid-twenties, after they got married. With her, my grandmother brought a recipe book full of family meals and special-occasion bakes. In meticulous Victorian-era handwriting, these recipes speak of the realities of cooking and baking back then. Measured ingredients are in pounds, or in "a bit of," or "a spoonful." Directions say "bake in a hot oven," or "put in a medium oven."

I have been translating these recipes into modern recipe-talk. Then I bring them to life: steamed Christmas pudding, parkin, Yorkshire pudding, and someday, steak and kidney pie. I love the feeling of connection to ancestors who lived in a different country and at a vastly different time. I love calling my 93-year-old, ill mother and telling her the pudding is steaming away on my stove top. It's a small gesture, but it's a gesture that speaks of what's in my blood and bone and sinew. It's a gesture that honors the past. I feel it deep in my gut.

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Whenever Mother’s sister walked into our kitchen with cooking on her mind, we all headed for the hills: Daddy to work, Mother to the back-bedroom for a LONG bath, and we three girls to the great outdoors. But, like curious puppies, we stayed close enough to listen and sniff. Who would have guessed that this short, plumb, blue-tinted-white-haired woman could transform into Goldilocks and create fairy-tale havoc? Cupboards and drawers emptied their contents on her command, and abracadabra the refrigerator complied well beyond the requirements for a simple spaghetti sauce. From the kitchen counter and sink, across the old white and black stove, to the Formica-top breakfast table and into the dining room, food and utensils piled and sprawled. “Oh, this bowl is too large,” she’d exclaim, “this bowl is too small, ah… this one is just… right.” By then, she’d happily dirtied every pot, pan, cup, and dish. Toward the end of her cooking sprees, our beloved aunt tired and, instead of falling asleep like Goldilocks, laughed helplessly—our cue to bring this tale to an end. We three little bears finished the cooking, cleaned the dishes, and put everything away while Mother’s soothing voice coaxed Goldilocks back into our delightful maiden aunt. You see, Aunt Arlene actually was a really good cook, and cleaning up after her cooking sprees pretty much took care of “spring cleaning.” So, what was the down side?

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