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Carole Duff's avatar

The saying, “It is more blessed to give than to receive,” is attributed to Jesus by the Apostle Paul in the book of Acts, but the saying does not show up in the gospels. I’m sure many things Jesus did were not recorded. And Paul had intimate knowledge of Jesus’s ministry—from the experience on the road to Damascus and thereafter—and was well acquainted with the other apostles. So, I have no doubt about the veracity of the saying. Still, I struggle with this axiom, not the giving—I love to give—but the receiving. For instance, after playing a flute solo or duet in church, I often receive kinds words from others. I tend to mumble in embarrassment rather than receiving gracefully, or put myself down by pointing out my mistakes, thus creating an awkward situation. I have to practice in order to receive well, which in a way is another form of giving. Here are some of my practice sayings: just say, “Thank You;” share the credit by acknowledging others; quote from Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians chapter 10 verse 31— “…all for the glory of God.” Now that’s a saying—and a whole lot more!

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Tabitha Burns's avatar

“If you’ve been to Tenerife, he’s been to Eleven-erife.” – a saying that never fails to make me laugh.

There was a lad on my uni course who was notorious for it. When someone at a party mentioned they'd been to see the band Paramore, he said he'd snogged the lead singer in a club. We doubted she would have been in a student nightclub in the UK but he insisted it was true.

When someone recalled spotting a (very famous) footballer who lived in the city, this lad told us that only two days ago, he had been walking along near the grounds and the very same footballer stopped his car and gave him a lift all the way home.

That wasn’t so much one-upmanship, I guess, as compulsive lying. It used to really infuriate me; I think because the things that make us cringe the most are the qualities we worry we have inside us too, and I used to exaggerate wildly as a child. It reminds me of another saying that always makes me smile, “Never let the truth get in the way of a good story.”

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