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Karen Egee's avatar

Cats?? I cannot write about cats. Nothing about cats resonates with me. They seem aloof and I am not good with aloofness. I love my outgoing lab who even at 13 is always so delighted to see me in the mornings, like he can’t believe his good fortune, all wags, pushing his head between my knees. I love exhuberant affection from my animals and my people, affection in large type, like my husband’s broad smile, his big twinkling eyes, that used to make even my most shy or hardest to engage little patients grin back up at him when he would pop into my office to change a bulb or fix the heat, or attach a bookshelf to the wall, cheerful bright yellow ladder or toolbox in hand, or put toner (what IS toner, even) in the printer, solving my impossible problems, and I love his generous affectionate wrap-around hugs, that used to fully envelope and practically smother and mortify my shy, tiny (cat-like?) mother, the hugs that are my haven. Admittedly I’ve never known a cat up close and personal. They must be affectionate in their own ways. But I’ll take my love, like my dog and husband, in Extra Warm.

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Autumn Lucas's avatar

I wasn't a cat person either, until I was. It's only the barest shreds of self discipline and consciousness that keeps me from becoming a quintessential cat lady. With too many cat escapades, rescues and reunions to recount here, all I can say is I find their personalities fascinating, their colors and coats fetching and am astounded -baring any neglect or abuse- how amazingly self confident they are. There's this that sums up felines well: Dogs look to their humans and think, "you feed me, you shelter me, you love on me and pet me, You must be God. Cats look to their humans and think, "you feed me, you shelter me, you love on me and pet me, I must be God."

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